A Brand New Year

This is the beginning of a brand new year for all of us here at South Fork Elementary. We have several changes we will be implementing and several new staff members added to the faculty. It is an exciting time to be a part of the South Fork Family. The great thing about starting over with a new year is that we all get a fresh slate. Teachers, Administrators, Students, and Parents all get the chance to do things better for the students and for the school.

As an administrator, I will incorporate the skills I learned at recent leadership and Discovery learning workshops. I have also been given really good feedback from the teachers about what they need from me. I am looking forward to making this a smooth transition year for the new staff and the new programs by leading the staff through the change process- slow and steady with lots of communication.

Teachers will be implementing the the Common Core Standards, Imagine IT reading, and school wide Positive Behavior Intervention Support system (PBiS). We also have several new faces added to our staff. I think each person will make a huge positive impact on our students learning and the overall climate of the school. I am really looking forward to working with this staff this year.

Parents, you can help us by participating and getting involved in the parent advisory committee, the PTA Board, and just being present in your child's school life. The more involved you stay in your child's education, the more likelihood of them graduating from high school. That may seem far down the road, but trust me, it comes faster than you think. We always need volunteers, PTA members, and just visits during lunch. Some come when you can and take part in all the parent education resources we offer throughout the year. Terry Murphy is our Parent Liaison this year. Contact her for more information.

Students, you just need you to come to school ready to learn. Be prepared for class every day, READ< READ< READ...every chance you get. The more you read the faster you will get and the stronger reader you become. Exercise that muscle called your brain, and read- everyday. Keep a positive attitude and know that what you are learning today is foundational to what will be discovered tomorrow- maybe by you. You are growing up in an exciting time. You will work in jobs that aren't even thought of yet. You will use technology that is not even considered yet one day. So, start off enthusiastic about school, get a firm foundation, and learn and grow while you are here. You have the best teachers in the county here. Let them help you unlock your potential.

See you on the 23rd at 5:30 for open house. Call the school if you have questions or concerns. 336-774-4664

Beating the end of year blues

This is the time that end of year tests occur for all grades K- 12. This also is the time when after the test is taken, students feel the year is over and there is nothing left to learn. As a teacher, I always loved this time of year. Once the tests were completed, I was free to teach the way we used to. I did lessons where the kids could explore their surroundings, spend a lot of time outside learning about their environment, and learn about the community.

It can still be that way. Students can complete a service project for the school, like weed and replant the garden, make a "Meditation Labyrinth", write stories and share them with the younger children or with the local retirement community. Imagine what ideas the students could come up with to complete the last three weeks of school and the amount of learning that would take place and they would not even be aware of learning. It might be something to keep in the back of your mind for next year. There are plenty of grants that would fund any of these service learning experiences.

It doesn't have to be the end of year doldrums, with good planning and preparation. I think the students would enjoy the challenge of making something for the school that will be there long after they are gone. It would become a part of the legacy of South Fork Elementary, which already has a rich history. So, what will your students add to the legacy next year and beat the end of the year blues?

Finishing the year strong

The end of the year is quickly coming upon us. It is time to wind down the teaching, complete the last review, and the last test prep exercises. You have learned all that you can learn for this year. The teachers have done their job well. It is up to you, the students, now. You can make the difference of whether you pass the test with flying colors or not. Review the year in your mind. Think of all the things you have learned, experienced, projects you have completed. All that work comes down to the the End of Grade Tests but more than that, it comes down to you giving your best. The test is a measure of how much you have learned this year. No test can tell you what all you have learned this year. It can't tell you how you learned to speak up for others when they are being picked on or bullied. It doesn't show how you have grown three inches. It doesn't show how you have discovered your talent in music, dance, or drama. All of these experiences will help you do well on the test but the test does not define you. You define the test by doing your best, trying your hardest, and taking your time to take it and recheck it. Show us what you got academically this year, just as you have showed us what you have gained in the other learning styles. Use your new found talents to help you pass the EOG this year. If you fall short on the EOG, it doesn't matter, you have a talent that will grow and bloom, if you let it.

No matter what, finish the school year strong, have fun, and enjoy the last few weeks of school.

Being Present for your Students

April 20, 2011

Being Present for your Students

I have been trying to think of a topic that would be inspirational to all who read this blog this week. After being inspired to write about being winners for your children, students and yourselves…it is pretty hard to come up with something better or more interesting than that. That is why it has taken me so long to get something published on the blog.

I have been using the book, “TEACHER THERAPY” by Karen Katafiasz for my motivational quotes in my morning announcements for my faculty and staff. The last few days have all been about taking care of yourself- physically, mentally, and emotionally so that you can be present for your students to attend to their needs. There is something to being in a state of mind to be present for your students. I know I have a hard time attending to the needs of my staff when I am not in the right frame of mind to be present at that moment. It is hard for me to be supportive to them when I have not dealt with my own “stuff”.

This time of year is especially important to be present for your students and for each other. This is the end of year boiling point for a lot of us. We have End of Grade Tests, End of year conferences, budget issues, final evaluations, and a million other things that goes into closing out a school year. What are you doing or will you do to take care of yourself so you can finish out the year in good shape? What can you do to help your students not be fearful of the end of year responsibilities?

One of the things I use is a daily devotional to uplift me every morning. So, I can come in on a positive note. I have also started walking a lot in the evenings. I have found that while I am walking, I can deal with my “stuff”, leave it on the road, and be present for my staff and students the next day. It usually works…but not every time. So, I have to pull from my bag of tricks to help me be able to let go of my stuff long enough to tend to my staff and student needs.

Turn to each other for help and support. Laugh at yourself, laugh with the kids, lighten your load, and be present each day for the next 10 weeks. You need it, your kids need it, and the school needs it. Find what works for you to be present every day with your students and with each other. We need each other now more than ever.

Have a great day.

Making Mistakes OK

"Teach your students that it's all right to make mistakes. Mistakes aren't reasons for shame but chances to learn and do better." This quote is taken from Teacher Therapy written by Karen Katafiasz. Albert Einstein said that some of his greatest ideas became successful from the mistakes he made before hand. Benjamin Franklin said that it was his mistakes that gave him further ideas for some of his greatest inventions. Today I see students get frustrated and freeze up when they make a mistake or are not sure of themselves. They would rather skip something than get it wrong. Making mistakes is a part of learning. We will not do everything perfectly; very rarely are things done perfectly. As part of being a winner for your students, you create a classroom that encourages thinking outside the box, trying new ideas, and making mistakes just a part of the learning process. It is so important to let the students have time to rework problems after they missed them and it has been reviewed so they have a chance to be successful at it. The more success they feel, the more self worth and self esteem they gain. You never know what great minds you have coming through your class that will help defeat cancer or find a cure for ALS, or make the first exhaust free vehicle that will help close the whole in the ozone layer rather than make it bigger. They may never feel the self confidence to try out their ideas if they feel ashamed of their mistakes they make early in their educational careers. Encourage your students to try their ideas out, especially in the math and science areas. Think of the hidden poets you have in your class or the next great novelist. We are teaching our future...think about that. If you really think about it hard enough, it boggles the mind. Our future teachers, executives, politicians, artists, scientists, doctors, farmers, mechanics....ect. Wow!, what a thought. I won't be looking for perfection when I get older. I will be looking for problem solvers, inventors that will make our world a safer, more organic, and planet friendly place for all the future generations. We learn from mistakes. What ideas will our students get from the mistakes they make now? We may never know if we don't encourage them to learn from their mistakes and take their ideas further.

Sticking with Winners part 3

I have written about sticking with winners and being a winner for your child. I have also written how teachers and school staff can be winners for students. There is also an important part to this for adults as well. We need to stick with winners ourselves. These people will be those that we can tell anything to in confidence, those that encourage us, and those that will talk at all hours of the night.

Adults need to be supported with winners just as much, if not more than our children. Think about a person you work with who is always negative, never has a positive thing to say, or is always miserable. Is this person a winner for you? Do they uplift you? Do they tell you good job or encourage you? Do you like spending time with this person? Are they good for your self esteem and self worth? If you can not answer yes to these questions, then this person is not a winner for you.

I have found out in the last two months how amazing sticking with winners can be. I had a support group to call on at anytime, but I did not feel like I could bother them with my “stuff” because they have their own things they are dealing with. When I allowed myself to trust these people and to be open and honest with them, it was a huge lift for my self esteem and my emotional health. They encourage me every day by calling, emailing, or texting me. They check in with me, especially during difficult times. I know I can call on these people at any time, day or night, and they will be there for me. These are my winners. These are the people I want to spend my time with when I can.

There are people that I have had to let go and quit hanging around because they were not winners for me. They made me feel inadequate, incapable, and incompetent. Whenever something good happened for me, they found a negative to it to bring me down. There are others that were a bad influence on me. They encouraged risky behaviors and taunted and picked at me until I went along. Sometimes these people can be best friends, family members, or coworkers and it can be very hard to get away from them. There are some family members that I don’t spend time with anymore because they are not winners for me. There are co workers that I avoid because they are not helpful to me. It is a choice, often difficult, to make about who are winners and non winners in your life. The best litmus test for me has been how I felt after an experience with a person. If I felt uplifted and supported, I know that person is a winner for me. If I felt nervous, upset, or let down, then I know that person is not a winner for me.

Sticking with winners are very important to everyone. We all need winners in our lives. Can you think of who are the winners in your life? Are there some who are not and you need to get rid of? Who are you a winner for?

Sticking with Winners part 1

Sticking With Winners

Posted by Tricia Spencer at 3/2/2011 8:00:00 AM

Sticking with winners...that was a topic I heard about at a meeting I attended the other night. Two questions were asked; "Are you a winner for your kids?" and "Are you sticking with winners for yourself"? What does a "winner" look like? Is it someone who is really good at what they do? Is it someone who does everything correct? Is it someone who is liked by everyone? Webster dictionary defines being a winner as: one that wins admiration or one that is successful especially through praiseworthy ability and hard work. In other words, a winner is someone who is inspiring and good to be around. Today I would like to talk about being a winner for your child.

The question asked about are you a winner for your child really took me back and made me think. I thought it was a no brainer. Of course, I am a winner for my child. But, as the conversation began, I started to hear ways in which I probably was not a winner for my child. Parents spoke about not encouraging their child enough, not praising them enough, not spending quality time just talking and listening to them. So, I started thinking about all the ways I was not a winner for my child. I have teenagers and that makes it even harder to be a winner for them because they act like they don't want you anywhere near them. It is different when your children are in elementary school and they still see you as their hero. Then, it is easy to be a winner to them. You applaud all their firsts and encourage them to keeping going further.They make it very easy to be a winner to them.

As children grow older, developmentally, they tend to push away from their parents and look towards their peers to be their "winners". They get their affirmations from their friends and that is who they want to spend all their time with. It is at this time that we need to be "winners" the most for our children. This can look many ways and you have just try things to see what gets their attention. It can be as simple as saying, " I love you" when you see them come through the door. It can be that you stop what you are doing, sit down with your child and ask them how their day went. Let them lead the conversation and you listen. Even a quick text message of "have a good day" or "luv ya" can send the message that you are pulling for your child and you are thinking about them. Being a winner for your child shows that you are interested in their life and you are their cheerleader no matter what.

I was very humbled by the conversation. I had given up on trying to connect with my child because I did not think he wanted to talk or to hear from me. I took the fact that he wanted to be with his friends more than with me, that I did not matter in his life. The fact is, no matter their age, your child needs you to be a winner for them. Encourage them, talk with them, spend time with them, and love them. Be their cheerleader.

What will you do to be a winner to your child today? I will be texting mine...and that is a start.